Who is Stephen L Robinson?
Well, I’m just a regular person living in Piscataway, NJ. But the titles I possess are Christian relationship coach, speaker, and soon the be published, author. I have been a relationship coaching for about two years now, but I do it from a slightly different perspective than most relationship coaches. I have helped several people revolutionize their relationship for the better using biblical principles. I honestly want to encourage people that there is a better way of doing relationships, and that’s doing relationships God’s way.
I heard you have your first book coming out soon tell us about it.
Yes, I wrote the book, ‘T.R.U.S.T.I.N.G Love- 8 Letters That Will Revolutionize Your Relationship’. It is scheduled to be released on Amazon on June 5th, 2020, in the form of paperback and kindle. I believe this book will be a game-changer and best seller on Amazon. This book will teach eight things that will make your relationship better, and the best part about it is that it is all biblical based. So, in this book, I have tons of scriptures that speak to each letter, why it’s vital in a relationship, and how you can apply it to your relationship or future relationship starting immediately. The eight letters are as follows
See how all those things are beneficial in a relationship. I break each letter down in each chapter.
How did you become a Christian Relationship Coach?
I became a Christian relationship coach because of my two failed long term relationships. I was in one relationship for eight years and the other one for six. I thought because I didn’t lie or cheat, I was a good man. But little did I know it took more than just not lying or cheating to be a good man. I was incredibly selfish, which pushed the women in my two relationships away—driving one to cheat on me with 13 different men and the other to leave me for another man. Ultimately my selfishness destroyed my two relationships. However, during that heartbreak, the second one, that is when God spoke to me and gave me the vision to revolutionize relationships for the better using biblical principles. So I just started being obedient from that time forward. I started reading up on relationships, studying what the Bible had to say about relationships and began making videos and quotes on social media. That’s how much coaching business was born.
For someone who is looking to start dating, what advice would you give?
If you are looking to date, the best advice I would give you is the 3 Cs of dating. They stand for Cause, Character, and Chemistry. When you are dating, all dating is; is you are getting to know the person to see if they’re a good fit for your life. How to tell if someone is a good fit for your life for a relationship is first they should have the same cause as you. That means do they believe in what you believe in; for example, if I’m a Christian trying to date an Atheist, we don’t have the same cause. There will be a division in our relationship always. So I believe Christians should date other Christians because we have the same cause. Having the same cause is not good enough, though. Character is what matters as well. Anyone can say they have the same cause as you, but their character speaks otherwise. For example, if I’m dating someone who says they’re a Christian, but their nature does not reflect that, we won’t get along. Then last but not least, find someone who you have great chemistry with. You want to be in a relationship with someone you can have fun with and have a connection to. If not, then your relationship is going to be dull and who wants to be in a dull, lifeless relationship. So if you are thinking about dating, please consider those three things. That will make your relationship that much better. The other elements in a relationship can be learned.