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If you’ve recently gone through a divorce, it can be hard to see how finding love after divorce is even possible.
Between your children, your ex, and all of the ways dating may have changed since you last were on the dating scene, it can be overwhelming and also exciting to consider moving on.
This guide has five tips for helping you make dating after divorce and finding your new partner a little easier.
Finding Love After Divorce Online
If you’re struggling with how to date after a divorce, you’re not alone. Dating after you have been married to someone can be scary. The methods in which people meet today may also be a lot different than when you first met your spouse.
If you’re a little hesitant to try online dating, this review is a good one to keep in mind.
While there are plenty of reputable online dating sites out there, there are also some scams to steer clear of. Just be careful, read reviews, and look for recommendations from other friends who have found love online.
More Than Chemistry
In your relationships after divorce, it can be tempting to fall for the first person you have chemistry with. Just know that there is still more to a relationship than just chemistry.
True companionship, friendship, and someone who supports you is traits to look for. While physical chemistry is important, it likely isn’t going to sustain a relationship if that’s all you have going.
When to Date After Divorce
If you’re wondering when to date after a divorce, there is no one-size-fits-all answer.
In short, the best time to start is really when you feel comfortable on your own and in your own life. Until you’re comfortable with your life and yourself, you may not be open to meeting someone else.
When you are ready, take things slow. Give yourself time to get used to dating again, meeting another person, and trusting them. There is no sense in rushing things. Especially if you have children, it is important to go slow.
Your kids don’t need to meet everyone you are dating or even hear about them. Save meeting your kids for someone you are truly committed to and want to become part of your family.
Forget Your Type
If you think you have a type of person you are always compatible with, it might be time to throw that out the window. Instead of just looking for a certain type of person, open yourself up to the possibility of someone new.
You might be missing out on a whole group of people you never even thought of.
Someone different might be just the change of pace you need.
Does Age Matter?
When it comes to age, this is really a personal decision. Keep in mind however that if you have children or are looking to have kids, a big age gap may pose a problem.
A big age gap may also mean different life stages, different goals, and different outlooks on life. While these aren’t always negatives, it is important to discuss these things before you enter a relationship.
Love After Divorce is Possible
Finding love after divorce can be a rewarding and special time in your life.
Take things slowly, open yourself up to different people, and most importantly be comfortable with yourself before you jump in.
Love and life go on after a divorce, so embrace this new chapter. For more relationship tips, visit the blog section for some great lifestyle features.
Author: RJ Frometa
Head Honcho, Editor in Chief and writer here on VENTS. I don't like walking on the beach, but I love playing the guitar and geeking out about music. I am also a movie maniac and 6 hours sleeper.
