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5 Rules to Have a Great Threesome

Threesome is not easy in terms of determination and organization. It is important that none of the partners feels restrained and shy. So, how to organize all this and have a great time?

  1.   Set the rules

Without rules, it’s really impossible; otherwise, you can easily cross the thin line between fantasy and reality with jealousy and other accusations. It’s important to understand that if a partner seriously feels the threat from a “third person,” then give up this stupid idea! After this pleasant night, your relationship will change and not for the better. For example, the most basic and important rule for many people is: “Will you kiss the third?” It should be understood that a kiss is always a very important and reverent event that should mark a special connection with a person. Unfortunately, we don’t all think so, which is why difficulties arise. So, set limits, they are needed. Oral sex, petting, anal, different threesome sex positions – discuss with the partner what is possible and what is not.

  1.   Find a third person

It is important to determine who you want to see third in your bed – a guy or a girl. This question needs to be discussed with a significant other, to weigh all the pros and cons, to choose a suitable candidate. Maybe your partner will not mind sharing the bed with a man, or you will be glad to see a girl in bed. If the question has caused a lot of controversies and you have not come to a single decision, compromise – today you invite a woman, and tomorrow – a man.

  1.   Don’t invite friends

Practice shows that it is better not to take a friend with you to bed. Friendship should be friendship, and sex should be sex. Don’t connect these two concepts. You simply can’t enjoy such sex – there is no escape from the awkwardness, and jealousy can be present in such relationships. And your friend may tell everyone about your intimate adventures. You can find a third person on a dating site, on thematic forums or special sites.

  1.   Don’t forget about protection

Although sex is a pleasant experience, you shouldn’t forget about the protection from various sexually transmitted diseases. The risk of transmitting various diseases during group sex increases at times. Humanity has not yet come up with a more reliable means than a condom; therefore, latex products must be prepared in advance. It is also worth remembering about the prevention of unwanted pregnancy. It is much easier to control interrupted sexual intercourse with one partner than with several. The condom will “save” you here too. Before practicing threesome, it is best to visit a doctor who conducts an examination and confirms the absence of diseases. And if there are doubts about the “purity” of a person, it is better to refuse sex with him or her.

  1.   Respect and control

Sex is a process that requires activity. And in the process, different situations can occur. It is important to monitor the status of the participants. Pay attention to the physical and emotional state. If there is discontent, some kind of pain, doubt, or something else, it is recommended to discuss this right away. As in sex, it’s important to give pleasure to people who feel embarrassed in bed. If everyone will strive to please the other, the sensations will be many times greater than if everyone will seek to get only their pleasure.

Threesome is an interesting practice. Not everyone is ready for such experiments, but if you decide to try, don’t forget about these simple rules. And make the communication easy, for example, play erotic forfeits or tell a couple of erotic stories to smoothly move to intercourse.

About RJ Frometa

Head Honcho, Editor in Chief and writer here on VENTS. I don't like walking on the beach, but I love playing the guitar and geeking out about music. I am also a movie maniac and 6 hours sleeper.

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