Last summer I got into a surprising conversation with my teenage children, and that was perhaps a turning point in my life. I am a 38-year-old manager at a popular local bar and had been divorced for 16 months. My two teenage children, a 14-year-old daughter and a 17-year-old son, sat down with me and gave me talk to get dating again. What a surprise it was for me! I always assumed that I should not date given that two hormone fueled teenagers lived with me, and maybe the life of love and romance and hot sex was over for me, but my children urged and encouraged me to look after myself and that for me for a positive turning point of my adult life.
My divorce had been ugly and messy, and though I wanted to move past that as soon as possible, no time seemed well enough to date again until my children told me to. I also had in mind that I did not want to get into a serious relationship soon and just wanted to let my guard down and have some casual fun for the time being. After the divorce, serious relationships were a no go for me and I wanted a fling – dates that make me alive and bring back my fun and flirty personality.
Then came the struggle of finding someone to date, a person who also wanted casual fun. As my work hours were quite busy and often long, and at times I had to take up extra shifts and training sessions as well, looking for a date seemed like a Herculean task to me. Unfortunately, my work space also had a no relationship policy and I had no time to get social outside my work hours, and I had two teenagers to look after as well. Then my colleague and great buddy Jennifer introduced me to nostringsdating net, and since then I am having the best casual dating time of my life.
The last time I dated casually and for fun was when I was in high school, but the recent process was smooth and successful for me as I found so many great individuals on the website looking for what I had in mind too. On the days I was off from work, I usually went on a fun date and in the course of that, not only I dated some genuinely nice people but also developed good friendships.
Casual dating to me is a breath of fresh air and really gives me the much-needed time to reenergize myself. I love that I don’t always have to commit to another date and the person I am on the date with, actually knows and appreciates that – that is the beauty of no strings attached dating. I am truly glad that my friend introduced me to adult dating sites, and I have blossomed into a fun-loving and joyful personality once again. Recently I went on two dates with a divorced father of one 13-year-old boy, and so far, it has been flirty and sexy, and I am open to the possibilities it may bring for me.